YOU ARE A QUEEN EVEN WITHOUT A MAN

They often ask, what is a Queen without a King?

And I ask, what is a King without a Queen?

 Most things depend on perspective. For instance, in many African traditions, a man needs a wife to become king

and a woman needs a man or king to become queen. In this case, a man needs a woman and a woman needs a man.

Outside that, a woman can fully attain the position of a Queen without a man and vice versa.

In my kingdom, I don’t need a man to make me Queen. If I’m worthy, I’m worthy (full stop).

If I meet a King ruling his own kingdom and he finds me worthy of him and I also find him worthy of me, then, we can come together to build our own kingdom and rule it together, while we still fully take charges of each of our own personal kingdoms. We will support each other. No one treats anyone less than they should be treated.

NB: A Queen in this context could also mean a woman in power, a successful woman, a leader etc.

As a lady or woman, you shouldn’t let society let you feel like you’re going to, or you are intimidating men with your success. Your success should have absolutely no bounds. If he can reach for success without limits why can’t you?

Be your own lady, don’t let society dictate the type of lady you should be.